If you have a predominance of the Kapha dosha in your mind-body constitution, you possess many wonderful qualities that arise from the combination of the earth and water elements that comprise Kapha. While sometimes Kapha types are teased for being “too slow” or set in their ways, when they’re in balance, Kaphas are extraordinarily kind, accepting, and strong.
Today let’s celebrate the gifts of being Kapha. Here are just a few . . .
- Kaphas possess the stability and nurturing nature of earth and water. You are patient, calm, and grounded, yet capable of skillful action and response. You have an inherent desire to help others, and people are drawn to your sweet and loving temperament.
- Kaphas are loyal and devoted friends. As a Kapha, you also tend to be close to your family, loved ones, and community. You bring a stabilizing influence into relationships. You’re considerate of other people’s feelings and needs, and are accepting and non-judgmental. Your motto is “live and let live.” Kaphas are also good lovers. Their passion builds up slowly and sustains itself for a long time. They easily express their love, appreciation, and affection and are rarely critical or negative.
- Kaphas are detail-oriented. In your work and daily activities, you’re steady and methodical without being obsessive. You put careful consideration into everything you do without rushing, getting anxious about the results, or snapping at others when things don’t go your way. You take delays and setbacks in stride; if your flight is late, you don’t lash out at the ticket agent—you take advantage of the extra time to enjoy a good book. As a result of your natural equanimity, you tend to enjoy excellent health and avoid the common illnesses caused by chronic stress.
- Kapha types have steady minds. While you may take your time in grasping new information, you have a strong and retentive memory. Once you master a concept, you never forget it.
- Kaphas tend to hold their tongues. With your Kapha nature, you are less vocal than Vatas and Pittas, speaking only when you have something important to say. When you do speak, people pay attention and value your contribution. You’re also a good listener and genuinely care about the feelings and perspectives of others.
- Kaphas can sleep anywhere. You sleep soundly and therefore enjoy great stamina and steady energy. You are graceful in your movements and are likely to have beautiful, shining eyes and a lustrous complexion. You also will tend to have a strong immune system, good muscle tone, and consistent good health.
As you celebrate your dosha type, keep in mind that an individual will never perfectly match the description of one particular dosha. Your predominant dosha may be Kapha, yet you may be a bi-doshic type with strong Vata or Pitta characteristics as well. Even two Kapha types will never have the same exact physical and mental traits, yet the underlying Kapha constitution will manifest some similarity in their bodies and minds.
We each contain a unique mixture of all three doshas—our own individual blend of space, air, fire, water, and earth. Remember, there is no “good” or “bad” dosha type—only balanced and imbalanced doshas. And the goal is always to explore ways to find balance in the mind and body so you can enjoy your full potential for vibrant health and happiness.