12/12/2018 Mind-Body Health
Emotional healing retreats can help you break through your frustrations. Read on to discover five signs you should go on an emotional healing retreat.
Emotions are an important part of daily life, significantly affecting your well-being. You can eat the healthiest foods, exercise, and meditate, but when something weighs heavy on the heart, you’ll feel like something isn’t quite right. True health is experienced when your mind, body, and spirit are in harmony, working together toward creating a life that you desire. When any type of emotional disturbance is experienced it can be pervasive, affecting all aspects of yourself.
Life is fraught with challenges, yet your resilience is strong and you persevere. You may have carried your emotional burdens so long it’s hard to remember what it was like to not have them. When in emotional distress, it’s not uncommon to feel like you are the only one having the experience and you must tread the path alone. This is not true. One type of support available to you is attending an emotional healing retreat.
An emotional healing retreat can give you the space to process and release emotions that hold you back. Sometimes you need to completely remove yourself from a situation in order to gain clarity. Physicist Albert Einstein stated, “insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results.” It is easy to go through life dreaming of change, but never doing anything different to make change happen.
Emotional healing retreats offer guidance and a chance for self-discovery. The potential for new insights and perspectives is invaluable and helps you to understand where the emotional blocks are within yourself that are preventing you from living the life you deserve. There is something for everyone and it’s a matter of taking that first step. Here are some signs that you might benefit from an emotional healing retreat.
1. Something Needs to Change
You feel like change is needed. You may not know what that change is yet—it can start as a feeling in the pit of your stomach or as a flutter in your chest. The feeling starts to dominate your thoughts as you ponder the possibilities of change and what that might look like. It can seem cloudy or confusing as your mind and heart sift through thoughts and emotions in order to make sense of what it is you want.
On the other hand, it may be obvious what the change needs to be—getting a new job, ending a relationship, setting boundaries, or moving to a new location. In this case, it’s easy for fear to take over, making you question yourself and a choice that you’ve already made or are in the process of making.
Change comes easily for some; for others, not so much. Change can be scary, especially when it requires some major shifts and difficult discussions. However, if the need for change is ignored, it will start to manifest itself as both physical and emotional discomfort. The benefit of attending an emotional healing retreat program is the potential for gaining clarity and finding the strength to proceed, especially when change is afoot.
2. Feeling Tired, Dull, and Depressed
Life is dynamic. No moment is ever the same. It is the nature of things to be in constant flux. Think of times in your life when you felt alive and happy. Life was moving and flowing in a way that made you thrive and, most importantly, it felt right.
Humans are complex beings; thus, you also have the ability to experience the opposite of thriving such as dullness, lethargy, or darkness—the characteristics of depression. There are many causes leading up to depression and can be related to:
- Substance abuse
- Childhood trauma
- Personal problems
- Loss of a job
- Physical illness
- Mental illness
The common factor is that the body and mind’s ability to maintain balance has been hijacked. When this happens, you may feel an internal imbalance or a disharmony and begin to experience the symptoms of depression such as:
- Changes in appetite
- Loss of energy
- Lack of interest or pleasure
- Feeling sad, empty, hopeless
- Sleep disturbance
Depression deeply affects your ability to function and perform day-to-day activities, making it difficult and overwhelming to know where to begin to overcome it. The most important (and the most difficult) thing you can do is to start by asking for help. Building a support system is crucial. If you are lacking support, you will have to seek it out. An emotional healing retreat can offer the support you need to heal and tools to begin shedding the darkness.
3. Healing After a Traumatic Event
Life is full of challenges, but when trauma is experienced, the consequences can be life altering. Finding ways to process and heal from a traumatic event needs to be handled with the utmost care to prevent long-term deleterious effects. Depending on what happened, you may need to heal from something that happened yesterday, years ago, or even generations ago.
Everyone handles stress in different ways, most often using the models set by your parents or others who influenced you while growing up. It’s important to allow yourself time to mourn as part of the healing process (if you suffered a loss) and otherwise acknowledge chaotic feelings inside you; they may be best addressed with the guidance of a professional.
When recovering, you must remember to tend to all parts of yourself which includes your mind, body, and spirit. Like the legs of stool, when one is imbalanced the others are affected as well. Programs such as an emotional healing retreat recognize all aspects of who you are and can start to gently guide you back into a state of emotional well-being and peace.
4. Constantly Feeling Overwhelmed and Anxious
The pace of life can be, and feel, frantic, making it hard to find stillness and maintain a sense of balance. You may not even be aware of your desires and needs separate from the world’s clutter.
It’s no wonder many suffer from feelings of overwhelm and anxiety. If you react to life rather than respond from a place of peace, truth, and being grounded, it might be time to nurture this innate part of yourself. This may require a re-discovery of who you are and what you require to lead a fulfilling life. You can’t change the world around you but you can change how you respond to it.
During an emotional healing retreat, a new relationship with yourself is cultivated so that during periods when you need it most, you can connect within and find exactly what you need to live life the way you deserve.
5. Fear Gets in the Way
Fear can be relied upon to keep you out of danger. However, when you find it’s starting to keep you from fully participating in life, you need to take action to understand and overcome your fear. The only way to get through fear is to embrace it, which requires a great deal of courage and faith. It’s possible, though!
One of the side effects of fear is to focus on the negative, which would serve you well if being pursued by a wild tiger, but is less helpful when you are pursuing your dreams. Fear is at the root of many stuck moments and may focus on:
- New experiences
- Being alone
- Losing control
Another benefit of an emotional healing retreat is the opportunity to learn to recognize your fears and their patterns and redirect them toward actions that are life-enhancing rather than life-suppressing.
Keep in mind these are just a few of the most common signs and anyone can benefit from a retreat. Winter is a time for reflection. Use this time to go inward and draw upon the energy of the season to plant the seeds for healing. Notice what is or isn’t working in your life and make a commitment to fostering good change. Try sharing and communing with people who are on the same path. Consider attending an emotional healing retreat if it feels right. It may be just what you need as a next step in your journey toward living a life full of joy and peace.
*Editor’s Note: The information in this article is intended for your educational use only; does not necessarily reflect the opinions of the Chopra Center's Mind-Body Medical Group; and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health providers with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition and before undertaking any diet, supplement, fitness, or other health program.
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